Over one-third of women of reproductive age have an abortion by the age of 45. However, women who have chosen abortion are often absent from the public debate. In order to break the silence surrounding abortion, we will be featuring real stories from real women each Wednesday on our blog. If you would like to share your story with us or have it published on our blog, go to http://www.prochoice.org/pregnant/hotline/share.html.
I have two sets of twins, both delivered via C-section. The second delivery was extremely difficult due to severe scar tissue. My doctor informed me this pregnancy could take my life or leave me with severe complications. I have four small children, two seven-year-olds and two eight-year-olds, and I could not risk not being there to watch them grow up and share their lives.
–Submitted by Karen* through a member clinic
After the pregnancy test came back positive, I knew that I was going to get an abortion. I’m only 21; I’m too young to be a mom, and I don’t have the money to support myself and a child. I’m still in college, and I don’t want to drop out and end an art career that had yet to start. Not to mention the man involved was no longer in my life. He’s also still in college, and I didn’t want to put the burden on him of paying child support and student loans. It wouldn’t be fair to either of us.
I went to a clinic outside of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. The first visit there was for a sonogram and to find out my blood type. One of my best friends went with me for support. I love her so much for going with me. My next visit was for the actual procedure. I’m lucky that my mom was understanding; she went with me so that she could drive me home. The staff at the clinic is just amazing; they made sure that I understood the procedure and what was going to happen after. They also had a counselor for me to talk to about the abortion.
I know this was the right choice for me. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through, but I’ll never regret my decision. I’m just thankful that my close friends and my mom were there for me to help get me through everything.
–Submitted by Abigail* through our website
*Names have been changed to protect patient privacy